Friday, November 16, 2007

Alex Remembers His Grandpa

Alex Remembers his Grandpa

Memorial Service November 3, 2007

 

Some called him Harry, others called him Pop…but I only knew him as grandpa. 

 

I’m Alexander George Botham, one of the middle grandchildren.  I get my middle name from my Grandpa, Harry George Botham.  I’m honored to take two of my names from this great man. 

 

Here are a few of my fond memories…

 

  • Grandpa always had a pocket knife….a sharp pocket knife
  • Grandpa was a teacher…Horseshoes, 2 for a leaner and 3 for a ringer…Cribbage card game, 15 two, 15 four…and spending one summer at Blue Lake, helping me break a bad speech habit I had
  • Grandpa would sometimes let the ladies go shopping and he would stay back to work or to take a quick nap.  Sometimes I would stay with him
  • Grandpa was a problem solver, and he took pride in his work…I’ll remember a bathroom shelf in my parents house, a mouse extension tray at Grandma’s computer, a dish drying tray in the RV, and a custom dog perch for Binky, so she could look out of the front window
  • Grandpa was a great listener…. He would lean forward, listening intently with constant eye contact.  It was clear that you genuinely has his complete attention.
  • Grandpa enjoyed taking a walk and loved his dogs, all of them
  • Grandpa was a singer; I can clearly hear him and grandma singing.  We’re travelin’ along….singn’ a song…side by side
  • Grandpa was proud of his kids and grandkids and would brag on them to anyone that would listen
  • Grandpa was open minded, teaching his family to be respectful and welcoming to everyone no matter their color or background
  • Grandpa always seemed willing to have his picture taken.  Whether a serious family pose…joking funny pose or while in action working on a project with someone
  • Grandpa lived in service of others, and was a kind gentle spirit

 

I’m privileged to be a part of this family that grandpa and grandma built.

 

Thank you grandpa for everything you gave, I will miss you.